I felt ashamed of carelessness shown by us but at the same time thankful to God for keeping All safe.


I think this must be common reaction of we all.

Monitory losses may be compensated but the psychological losses never can be made up by any thing.

Whole day I was thinking on it with reference to all small incidences...

Then I felt what i can do is just be there.......... may be try to help in small small things

I called Shantala 2-3 times that day, thinking that i will take leave & be at Aaji's place... may be we can alternate go there at least for some time.

Rajas' first reaction was how is Aaji & all ? who all were there? how they escaped? Then he said," This is all happen due to one switch, how we can be so ignorant? We can definitely take necessary care ... then why don't we do that?"

I told him, " We have made a mistake , a big mistake but now we have learnt a lesson"

Its not that we are always careless but we have failed due to group mentality( thought like somebody else must have done it).. so i suggest we must make ourselves responsible for all activities.. a group of 3-4 parents will take care of each activity which we can divide in ourselves.

And within the group we will follow do/check-counter-check method. We can further decide as per Aaji & Aajoba's advice.

Lata Aaji,Anil Aajoba - we are extremely sorry...

Minal .