Lata Aaji had told us to discuss about our society for our last Shibir.Me and Manava discussed about it and I decided to post some of the things of what I think of our society.The topic I have taken is freedom.
Our society has changed since globalization.Freedom in taking decisions in families have became easy due to small families replacing joint families.But individual freedom is something which has not been well in our society.Parents nowadays are of two types.
Type 1-These are parents who give too much freedom to their children.Most of the time this formula doesn't work.Children don't follow discipline making it tough case to handle.I have seen children ageing 12-18 having one to two thousand rupees in their wallets.This results into overspending and if the child is with bad company it can go from bad to worse.
Type 2-These parents are complete opposite of the first one.They are suspicious of their children,they make decisions for their children and even decide what their children must do and what they shouldn't.
I know mothers of some of my friends who check their mobile's call logs and messages or some who decide what their sons must do after tenth or some who even tell their children whom should they befriend and whom they shouldn't.
But its not the complete mistake of the parent.Most of the time the children never tell their parents what they want and sometimes they don't try to make their own decisions.We children must tell our parents what we want,we ourselves must make our own decisions and we must be strong enough to get out of bad company if we are in or discipline ourselves so that we as responsible teenagers can enjoy our freedom
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